For "spring cleaning" sessions, and for my own closet, I do a quickie-version of that process, just to give the closet a mini-facelift for the current season. I've learned a lot of what I know from French women, and of course from attending FIT in New York. I've read dozens of books by French stylists, who swear the French have very little in their closets but are impeccably chic on a day-to-day basis. There is a lot to learn from their philosophy of less is more. Less to choose from, less time to get dressed, less "I don't have a thing to wear" syndrome, more space, more creativity, the list goes on and on.
If you're anything like I used to be, you go through your closet piece by piece, determined to let go of a lot, then you rationalize why you need each piece, and end up piling everything back in your closet, save for one or two pieces that go off to Good Will or consignment. Mission not Accomplished.
Pro Tip: If you haven't put away your winter clothes yet, then do this mini-clean-out for them, before you store them. If you don't switch seasons, then I would only do spring, and worry about winter when the time comes.
Pro Tip: This is great for motivation to purge. I once did a closet that had 47 event T-shirts in it. (You know, the boxy, always-too-big Tees you get from participating in a 5K or fundraiser). The client had no idea she had that many, and she promptly got rid of all but a few sentimental ones* and freed up half her dresser drawers. Voila! Less is more.
On the other hand, if you are a stay-at-home Mom (or Dad)
and you have 20 pairs of jeans, you'll need to keep more than one or
two pairs, as these work well with your lifestyle. You may want to rid
yourself of 3-5 pairs but you'll want to keep the rest. Read on for
keeping the Top Ten.
If you answer No to any of those questions, out it goes! I have done too many closets that have clothes from the 80s and 90s in them -- we are worth it -- go get yourself some new, fresh, modern, sexy clothing!! It will do wonders for your self-esteem! Of course I'm not talking about retro and vintage clothing here, but you can't tell me your old holey GAP hoodie from the mid-90s is retro or vintage. It's not doing anything for you -- get rid of it!
Pro Tip: I don't do 'house clothes' -- we should look as good in the house for our husbands, wives and friends as we do for the outside world! They are our most-loved ones! Get yourself a nice cashmere cardigan and give the GAP hoodie to GoodWill. You'll be warmer in the cashmere anyway. *wink*
From the Top Ten, take away or add, depending on your lifestyle. To use the examples from above: For Shorts in Antarctica you'd get rid of 2-3 more pairs (or more if you can stand it) and for Stay-at-Home Jeans you'd keep a few more than the Top Five or Ten. Make sense?
Pro Tip: BE BRUTAL. Try things on, look at yourself from all angles (everyone should have a full length mirror and a hand mirror to see the back view!) Anything that doesn't fit goes -- unless it's worth it to alter it**. Fashion is meant to be fun! Anything you don't love, or that doesn't serve your shape well goes OUT THE DOOR! If you're interested in learning about what suits your shape and what doesn't visit theclosetcoach.com!
Step 4: Reorganize & Regroup.
ReorganizeAfter doing Step 3 with every category of clothing (even shoes and coats/jackets if you have the time) reorganize the pieces back in your closet(s) and dresser(s) in a logical order to your lifestyle. Hang formal dresses, and other less frequently worn clothing (unless, of course, you're a socialite!), away from the front-and-center of your closet, as it's inefficient to go past these pieces on a daily basis. Even better, hang them in another closet entirely to get them out of your day-to-day wardrobe. I hang my rarely worn pieces in garment bags on a rack in my basement.
ReorganizeAfter doing Step 3 with every category of clothing (even shoes and coats/jackets if you have the time) reorganize the pieces back in your closet(s) and dresser(s) in a logical order to your lifestyle. Hang formal dresses, and other less frequently worn clothing (unless, of course, you're a socialite!), away from the front-and-center of your closet, as it's inefficient to go past these pieces on a daily basis. Even better, hang them in another closet entirely to get them out of your day-to-day wardrobe. I hang my rarely worn pieces in garment bags on a rack in my basement.
Pro Tip: This is the perfect time to
go and get yourself some non-slip hangers. They sell them at Target or
Marshall's, or any other home good store, and you'll never again have
to deal with things slipping off the hanger and landing in a ball on the
floor. They're cheap and so worth it.
Regroup
Think about the pieces that you wear the most often, and consider why you like them so much. I do this with my clothes constantly and when I notice I'm wearing something to death I go buy it in other colors. Then you'll know it's a good purchase!
During the reorganize portion of this step I'm sure more than a few ideas popped into your head like, 'oh, if I only had this, I could wear it with that'. Take advantage of those little 'creative light bulb' moments and keep a pad and pen (or your iPhone) near your closet. Jot down the pieces you think of that could pair with what you already have to make great outfits. Then you have a shopping list for what you really need.
Many of my clients were just missing basics, and that's why they were having a hard time creating chic, easy-to-throw-together outfits. If all you have are print pants and printed blouses you'll have 'no clothes' because you'll have no outfits!! But with a few white Tees and a pair of blue or grey skinny jeans, you'll have a plethora of amazing outfits! In fact if you don't have a white Tee shirt that fits you like a glove go get one! I insist, it will change your whole wardrobe, think like the French. If you're leery of wearing white on top, get a Spanx slimming tank for underneath -- voila, nothing but sexy curves, no lumps, no bumps.
Pro Tip:
Lots of clothing is expensive in France and many French women don't
have the money to buy the trends season after season. They solve this
problem by investing in their basics and staying abreast of fashion
trends by observing what's on the street and in the fashion magazines.
Then, they scour their closets for what they already have that
speaks to the trend, whether it be a color, a pattern or a detail. They
may spend a bit on a trendy inexpensive accessory or two to show that
they are in the know but that's it!
Step 5: Take stock
Look at what you rejected to really understand your mistakes.
The
main goal here is to figure out what your mistakes were or "shopping
pitfalls", as I call them. How did these things end up in your closet?
Did you raid the clearance rack? Did you accept clothes from a
family member or take hand-me-downs from someone? Did you shop when you
were upset or "feeling fat" and make bad decisions? Once you get
good at figuring our where your shopping mistakes are, you'll get better
at not making them. When I did my sister's closet, we purged a ton of
sale-rack clothing. I asked her why she bought those items and she said
she thought she was saving money. We added up approximately what she
spent on each item (the sale price) and the total came to $300!!! Not
only did she not save money, but she threw $300 down the drain as none
of the clothing was right for her and she didn't love any of it! Now,
she is very, very careful about what she buys from a sales rack.
Pro Tip: Don't get blinded by sales. Keep your wits about you. I always tell my clients to ask themselves, Would I pay full price for this? If the answer is No, put it back, and keep moving, you can thank me later!
Pro Tip: Don't get blinded by sales. Keep your wits about you. I always tell my clients to ask themselves, Would I pay full price for this? If the answer is No, put it back, and keep moving, you can thank me later!
*Sentimental Pieces
I do not make my
clients get rid of anything they don't want to get rid of. But,
sentimental pieces don't belong hanging with your daily wardrobe (unless
you wear it frequently and it meets the three-question criteria). For
these items, I usually urge clients to purchase some tissue paper, and a
plastic container and wrap these items securely away and out of their
closet. The items you push past in your closet everyday should only be
current season and current for your lifestyle and body type, otherwise,
it's inefficient and getting in your way to getting out the door!
**Items to be Altered
The only items
that should make it to the items to be altered pile are pieces that
meet the three-question criteria and that you love. I also don't think
it's worth altering garments that are poorly made and won't hold up
(such as garments from H&M, NY&Company, etc.). It takes some
getting used to to alter pieces in your wardrobe if you've never been
one to do it before, but you can't put a price on a piece of clothing
that fits your body to a T. A properly fitted garment can make you look
taller and 10 pounds thinner.
Here's to Your Style Simplified!!
The Closet Coach
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